Why has country music moved away from this style? It’s such a classic!

Earl Thomas Conley’s “Holding Her and Loving You” is a poignant exploration of love’s complexities, masterfully delivered by one of country music’s most resonant voices. Released in August 1983 as the second single from his album “Don’t Make It Easy for Me,” the song showcases Conley’s ability to convey deep emotional truths, earning it a cherished spot in the annals of country music. The track, penned by Walt Aldridge and Tom Brasfield, became Conley’s fourth number one country single, a testament to its powerful narrative and Conley’s emotive delivery.

The song’s commercial success is underscored by its peak at number one on the US Hot Country Songs chart and its number two position on the Canadian RPM Country Tracks. Its enduring appeal is further highlighted by its digital sales, which had reached 156,000 copies by April 2019. The music video for the song, available on GAC, extends its narrative reach, offering a visual representation of its heartfelt themes.

Earl Thomas Conley’s journey to this career-defining song was marked by determination and a passion for music that saw him transition from working in a steel mill to becoming a celebrated country music artist. After a stint in Nashville that initially yielded little success, Conley’s fortunes changed in Huntsville, Alabama, where he met Nelson Larkin. This pivotal meeting led to a contract with GRT and later successes with Warner Bros. Records and Sunbird Records, setting the stage for his hit singles and albums.

Conley’s influence extended beyond his solo work. His collaboration with Anita Pointer of the Pointer Sisters on “Too Many Times” showcased his versatility and helped break down genre barriers. Despite facing challenges in the 1990s, including vocal issues and industry politics, Conley’s legacy continued to influence artists, exemplified by Blake Shelton’s Top 20 charting of “All Over Me,” a song co-written with Conley.

Conley’s passing on April 10, 2019, due to cerebral atrophy, marked the end of an era but also solidified his enduring impact on country music. His discography, which includes albums like “Fire & Smoke” and “Somewhere Between Right and Wrong,” continues to inspire both fans and fellow artists alike​.